Execute a Smooth & Impressive Valentine’s Day

Giving & accepting gifts

• Choose a gift that is appropriate for the stage of the relationship you are in e.g. first date/new relationship vs. casual relationship vs. long term relationship. It is best not to give a gift of an intimate nature in the very early stages of a relationship.

• Present your gift with though. Have someone help you to wrap the gift if necessary as the wrapping is a big part of the gift’s first impression (it is the gift’s outfit!).

• Be strategic about choosing a time to present the gift to your date. Near the end of the date is a good time.

• You may decline an inappropriate or unwanted gift. You might do this if the gift is too intimate in nature or too expensive for your comfort level for instance. You can say something like this: “Thank you for this kind gesture but I am not comfortable accepting this gift.” You may follow up with an explanation if you wish.

• When you give a gift always include the gift receipt when possible. If you receive a package that includes a gift receipt you should feel free to use it.

• Match the style of the gift to your date’s personality style, interests/hobbies and aspirations.

Celebrating single

• Do not press your single friends to share their Valentine’s Day plans. It can be a sensitive time for singles.

• Avoid sharing too many details about your intimate VDay plans if you have not been prompted.

Valentine’s day at the office

• Be sure to maintain professional conduct when discussing the topic of Valentine’s day.

• Be festive but not inappropriate. Giving out kids style valentines may be a cute retro idea but it is not professional

• While affection may be the theme of the day, keep office decorum in mind.

• Give gifts to friends or your secret office crush in private

Restaurant savvy

• Select a location that suits your personal style as a couple or prospective couple

• Arrange everything ahead of time: you may be able to drop off special wine, flowers in a vase, the gift in advance of the date

• Discretely provide the server or maitre d’ with your credit card if you want to be the one to pay. The bill never has to come to the table.

• Brush up on your dining etiquette before you go. You may need to guide your date.